Saturday, December 11, 2010

Romancing Him this Christmas

This Christmas, you should give the man of your dreams all of the romance you feel he deserves. A romantic holiday for him is an excellent present, even if your man does not always seem to be the most romantic guy in the bunch.

A common misconception is that men do not like romance. This is not true. Many men find the gesture of romance from the woman they are dating or their wife to be an intimately important part to maintaining a healthy relationship. This is why it is as important to romance him as it is for him to romance you.

What appeals to a man romantically really is no different then what appeals to woman. While you may not be out buying chocolates and flowers, you can purchase a nice outfit and look your best for him. You can purchase little trinkets such as male-oriented jewelry (watches, rings, a chain, etc.) and you can even plan a romantic evening for him.

Every man loves coming home after a long hard day of work and finding out that the woman he adores has prepared the ultimate romantic evening. The holiday season tacks on added stressors that make men and women alike more tense. Preparing a romantic evening for him is sure to make him happy as the stress of the holidays, work, money, and life in general melts away for both of you.

So Many Christmas Romance Ideas, So Little Time

It is understandable if you do not have an excessive amount of time to spend romancing him this Christmas. However, even the littlest gesture will be sure to make an impact. People these days are constantly on the go. It is only natural to feel like two passing ships in the night. However, this holiday, it is time to make a change for the betterment of your relationship.

You need to make a conscious effort to show him exactly how much he means to you this Christmas. Romancing him is not going to take forever, but the time spent will be well worth it for both of you.

Here are some tips you can use when romancing him this Christmas. You do not have to use all of the dating advice presented in the article. In fact, if you can come up with your own ideas, feel free to use them as well. Just remember, the goal is to make him happy and please him in the most romantic of ways.

Tip #1 Men Love Massages

You may be surprised to know just how much men truly love massages. The feel of your fingers as they kneed sore, overworked flesh while working out all the kinks in his back can actually relax him to the point of a heightened consciousness. His body will feel so alive, and may even be a prelude to some fun in the bedroom as a result.

There are many things you can use when massaging him this Christmas. You can choose from some of the best oils available on the market. There are electric massagers, which are designed for massaging all over his body. Additionally, you can use any type of massage wand or massage brush with little bumps on the ends. These bumps are used to penetrate into the muscle, making it feel better in the process.

You will also need candles, romantic music, and a towel, especially if you plan to make a night of it.

Tip #2 Men Love Receiving Presents

The holidays are truly a time for giving and receiving. This Christmas, give him a present he can use all year long. While this present could be anything from a vibrator to something that is used for anal play (such as beads or butt plugs), whatever you choose will be an excellent edition to the ending of a romantic night of fun.

You may even decide to leave presents around your bedroom for him to discover on his own. He will be delighted as he opens his sock drawer only to find a present from you. In fact, he will probably spend the whole day thinking about how he can use the present that evening when he is with you!

Tip #3 Men Love it when Women Dress Up for Them

One of the biggest things men love is receiving a gift you buy for yourself. Sure, the lingerie you purchase may be more a gift for you, but he will not see it that way. His mind will be elsewhere this season as he thinks about all of the ways he can get you out of the outfit. Of course, he will also be appreciating just how good you look in the lingerie to begin with!

When you are thinking about intimate presents you can give, during a romantic evening for him this Christmas, consider putting on a show for him. You do not have to strip. Perhaps you just want to have an evening fashion show with each outfit getting skimpier until you are wearing practically nothing. No matter what you decide, he will love it and love you for showing him all of the gifts you have bestowed upon him this holiday season.

When it comes to romancing him over the holidays, you just need to be creative. When you do, the unique present you give him, through a romantic evening, fashion show, or something else, will be well received. In fact, he may end up giving you your present early, just so he can relieve some of the moments he spent during his own romantic evening this Christmas.

About the Author: Shayla Moore is a writer for oasislingerie.com She has many interesting topics and ideas for all to read about. Check out more of her articles.

No comments:

Post a Comment